Silence is not Golden...***

... in a Relationship.

There are the upheavals.

The ups and downs. But problems don't solve themselves.

Only through open and positive communication will things work out.

Talk it out. Make it happen.

Q ... BB .. If you're reading this... :)


*** Only a Tan, is. :P

Let's talk about (No) Sex

The Dalai Lama, , on Friday said

sex spelt fleeting satisfaction and trouble later, while chastity offered a better life and "more freedom."

"Sexual pressure, sexual desire, actually I think is short period satisfaction and often, that leads to more complication,"

He said conjugal life caused "too much ups and downs.

"Naturally as a human being ... some kind of desire for sex comes, but then you use human intelligence to make comprehension that those couples always full of trouble. And in some cases there is suicide, murder cases," the Dalai Lama said.

He said the "consolation" in celibacy is that although "we miss something, but at the same time, compare whole life, it's better, more independence, more freedom," the Dalai Lama waxed eloquent on the Buddhist credo of non-attachment.

"Too much attachment towards your children, towards your partner," was "one of the obstacle or hindrance of peace of mind,"

he said.



I'm at a cross-roads myself. At a heartache.

The power of suggestion is strong when one's in a dire circumstance.


Q ... But I do not necessariy equate sex with love?

Big Hair non the Better

Supermodel Tyra Banks is famed for her increadibly lustrous weave.

It's been once commented by a well-known reporter that this girl almost seems to have the ability to control every strand of her hair in the wind during a photoshoot.

Match that do a bodacious body, standing over 5 feet 10 inches tall, those famed electrifying green eyes, a megawatt smile that can melt anything and mocha skin, it's little wonder Banks is one of the biggest supermodels of all time.

Anyhow, back to the hairy issue, actually with a face as strong and stunning as hers, she can do without the big hair and still look a thousand times more fab than the next girl beside.

And Miss Bankable knows that, for sure.

Witness some shots:






Q... a follow-up post to the earlier post 'Short is Hot'.

The Dudes like it Low

The demin jeans is perhaps the Fashion world's greatest contribution to the real world.

No one can do with out them.

The wide variations in cut only goes to show how everyone needs a pair and how important it is to actually cater to the needs of the masses.

Whether a pair that cost no more than $50 at a flea shop or one that costs over a thousand dollars at a high-end store,

there's no denying that the jeans is a must have for anyone.

Well for me, I like mine Low-rise .

For 2 simple reasons (and no, 'sexy' is not one of them, sorry) .

1) Comfort: Less material at the hip region means is cooler and more comfortable to wear in a humid climate. Also , 'less you're wearing 'grandfather' undies which goes all the way to the arm pits, there'll be a lot of excess demin rubbing against your sides which is extremely uncomfortable.

2) Sleekness: Normal cut jeans tend to make you look bulky in the mid section, and even more so if you've a belt on and especially so if you've got a fitting top. Much like having a pool buoy at the hips. Not flattering.

And, what's the point of spending hours at the gym to get that trim and tight waist line only to hide it under thick denim?




Q... sleek, rugged and versatile. That's it for me.

The Babes like it High

Beyonce Knowles is 'addicted' to wearing high heels.

The 'If I Were a Boy' singer recently admits she can't help splashing out on expensive stiletto shoes every time she sees a shop selling footwear.
She said:

'I love those super-high shoes that are out at the moment. I'm addicted.... I love the High Heel'

~ MSN news.

Actually, she's not that famous a killer heel wearer.

Fashionista Victoria Beckham is the doyenne of towering stilts.

Witness:





Then again most of us already knew that didn't we?

Her Posh days were never over.

Mrs Becks wears the tightest couture and the highest heels.

Q

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